Well, I did go and buy Storybook Love, the song from the Princess Bride, and was reminded of how the song captures that essence of Dominant Femme/Submissive Butch love. It's interesting how deeply this zinged with me years before I knew anything about this facet of my own sexuality or even that such things exist, or even the words 'dominant' and 'submissive' and 'butch' and 'femme'.
Words from the song that used to give me such a thrill (and still do):
Now he said, "Don't you know I love you oh so much
And lay my heart at the foot of your dress?"
She said, "Don't you know that these storybook loves
Always have a happy ending?"